Gentlemen, it is true, about 85 percent of what women discuss in a non-professional setting is about YOU! As a woman who often provides herself as a listening ear to her girlfriends, I felt it important to share what women wish you were doing!! Take out your note pad and prepare to become a 2014 version of Mel Gibson’s character in “What Women Want!”
You may not be interested in applying all of these behaviors to your dating life, but adopting one of these will have the lady you like bragging about YOU. You’re welcome.
1. A woman just meets you and you all text, talk, Skype, etc. for a couple days. NO she does not want to come to your house and chill on the third day!! Period. Good News: Dates can be FREE! Think making sandcastles at the beach in your city or channeling your inner child and
doing it playing in the park. Be CREATIVE!
Jill Scott is even content with a long walk! Easy.
Ciara: Oh so you’ve been watching me?
Future: You not hard to miss.
Annnnnnnd months later Ciara is pregnant. See fellas, eye contact and compliments go a long way!
Trey your 4 seconds are UP!
4. This may sound corny but if the lady you’re dating brings up the beauty of another woman, flip the compliment so that it leads back to your date. For example:
Your lady friend: That woman in the purple dress has great legs!
Even 19 year old Diggy Simmons knows this is true. “Your whole crew is tight but they don’t do it like YOU!”
5. Text or call the lady the day after you two have went out on a date or even just informally hung out. No you don’t need to conjure up your best Shakespearean love sonnets. A simple “Hope you’re enjoying your day” or “I had fun with you last night” will do the trick.
Of course the Light Skinned Keith Sweat knows to shower his lady with attention. I guarantee a positive response to these actions or your money back!
The World is Ours Blogger, Leah C. Powell